tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1012277645322483593.post2197318954360046534..comments2024-03-27T23:37:20.556-07:00Comments on dhamma musings: Tying The KnotShravasti Dhammikahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06246408068143301108noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1012277645322483593.post-31615479123811000272009-07-28T06:41:49.413-07:002009-07-28T06:41:49.413-07:00Dear Venerable,
Thank you. Metta.Dear Venerable,<br />Thank you. Metta.Walterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14473139174740412105noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1012277645322483593.post-75407467055183285882009-07-28T03:02:18.613-07:002009-07-28T03:02:18.613-07:00Dear No,
Not just an ‘eel-wriggler’ but perhaps a ...Dear No,<br />Not just an ‘eel-wriggler’ but perhaps a blind one too. You say your understanding is that the reason ‘monk shouldn’t be doing it is …because it is not in keeping with the reason why he is living a "homeless" life, i.e. a monk, in the first place’. Am I crazy or something? Or is this exactly what I said in my reply to you?Shravasti Dhammikahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06246408068143301108noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1012277645322483593.post-26156991252015821202009-07-27T21:37:50.740-07:002009-07-27T21:37:50.740-07:00Dear Venerable,
Thank you for the explanation. Yet...Dear Venerable,<br />Thank you for the explanation. Yet I am not too clear, which might be because I am looking at the wrong passage in the Digha Nikaya. <br /><br />The passage I read goes something like this (translation by Rhys Davies): <br />"Whereas some recluses and Brahmans, while living on food provided by the faithful, earn their living by wrong means of livelihood, by low arts, such as...... Gotama the recluse holds aloof from such low arts." <br /><br />Based on this rendering, it would appear that my thinking in my earlier post is in conformity to this passage, since as a recluse the Buddha did not think such vocations as worthy to be practised, especially for making a livelihood when a monk is dependent on the upkeep of supporters. <br /><br />By officiating at a marriage ceremony, the monk would be doing it in his capacity as a monk, not as a professional match-maker or something like that, and therefore would not be devoting too much of his time. So the reason why the monk shoudn't be doing it is, to my understanding, because it is not in keeping with the reason why he is living a "homeless" life, ie a monk, in the first place.<br /><br />Anyway, it is just an opinion of mine, and perhaps I am just being an "eel-wriggler"... :)Walterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14473139174740412105noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1012277645322483593.post-50380529874891810162009-07-27T15:33:39.650-07:002009-07-27T15:33:39.650-07:00Dear John and Pamala,
It is becoming common nowada...Dear John and Pamala,<br />It is becoming common nowadays for Sri Lankan monks in the West to have at least some role in weddings, and perhaps not a bad thing either. Oh, and incidentally, if I had a cute little daughter like you, I’d be boastful too.Shravasti Dhammikahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06246408068143301108noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1012277645322483593.post-57930927681217550942009-07-27T06:23:45.243-07:002009-07-27T06:23:45.243-07:00The abbot at my temple, a Theravadin monk from Sri...The abbot at my temple, a Theravadin monk from Sri Lanka, officiates at weddings here in the United States. But, he is also very independent-minded, which I like.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14456469890367984766noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1012277645322483593.post-69067222804609911982009-07-27T04:38:15.541-07:002009-07-27T04:38:15.541-07:00To celebrate or celibate? Was there a mistake by ...To celebrate or celibate? Was there a mistake by the scribe - just like Misquoting Jesus?aah-haahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17018252160335014110noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1012277645322483593.post-12849307047750600262009-07-27T01:48:24.355-07:002009-07-27T01:48:24.355-07:00Dear Vasile,
Thanks for the kind thoughts. Much ap...Dear Vasile,<br />Thanks for the kind thoughts. Much appreciated.<br /><br />Dear No, <br />The reason the Buddha asked his monks and nuns not to be marriage celebrants is the same reason he asked them not to be doctors, go-betweens, government advisors, etc. you start off with one goal (enlightenment) and you end up spending all your time doing something else (marrying people). Why resolve to be an architect and then get a job as a botanist?Shravasti Dhammikahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06246408068143301108noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1012277645322483593.post-14676979445689474722009-07-26T18:23:45.844-07:002009-07-26T18:23:45.844-07:00"According to the Buddha, monks and nuns shou..."According to the Buddha, monks and nuns should not get involved in ‘the giving or taking in marriage’ and thus they have never been wedding celebrants (D.I,11). "<br /><br />I was wondering what could be the reason. Then it became quite obvious that monks, exemplifying the best state, namely living a homeless life, can't logically also celebrate a state of living such as marriage. But humans, before reaching enlightenment, would still have to go about their affairs as best as they could. Thus the Buddha would still have some advice to give to married people (see "Marriage" in the Venerable's Buddhismatoz).<br />:)Walterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14473139174740412105noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1012277645322483593.post-12036771794080351862009-07-26T02:05:23.697-07:002009-07-26T02:05:23.697-07:00Venerable, that wedding benediction carries such a...Venerable, that wedding benediction carries such a special meaning for me today... even if I'm not sure I'll ever wed my beloved one. But still, may our friendship never decay!<br /><br />And may your life flourish!Vasile Andreicahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00986438406818817591noreply@blogger.com