Monday, June 23, 2008

Mother Teresa

A recent publication on Mother Teresa, often called the Saint of the Gutters, has sent ripples of unease throughout the Catholic world and beyond. The book, called Mother Teresa: Come Be My Light, is a collection of letters written by the famous missionary nun over a 60 year period. They show that except during her first years as a nun and for a few weeks in 1959, Mother Teresa never once felt the presence of Jesus and was continually plagued by doubt about the existence of God.
It is not the first time controversy has surrounded Mother Teresa. In the early 1990 it was discovered that children in her orphanages were only given for adoption to Christian couples. After this policy became known in India it caused widespread criticism. Christopher Hitchens 1997 book about her painted a picture of a women who hobnobbed with dictators and sleazy businessmen and happily accepted their donations, who considered birth control and abortion to be the greatest threat to world peace and who refused to give pain-killers to the dying so that 'they could participate in Christ's suffering.' Whatever or not one accepts Hitchens' claims, this new book shows that Mother Teresa's inner life was dramatically different from her outer persona. In letter after letter to her numerous confessors she pours out her feelings of despair and abandonment. The book is difficult to read without feeling very sorry for the poor woman. But there is something else equally troubling about this book. Apparently Mother Teresa gave the strictest instructions that all her letters were to be destroyed after her death. It seems she wanted no one to know of her inner emptiness. Her wishes have not been followed and now these most private missals are available for everyone to read. In the light of these recent revelations Catholics are struggling to explain how someone widely considered to be a saint could have led such a spiritually barren and tortured life. Some are suggesting that her doubt was 'a divine gift that enabled her to do great work.' Others are saying that 'God hides himself most from those he loves most' or that he 'uses nothingness to show his greatness.' Another commentator has written that Mother Teresa's letters could be 'a ministry to people who have experienced some doubt, some absence of God in their lives'
Modern Christian apologists sometimes remind me of an alcoholic. He comes home reeking of alcohol and insists to his wife that he has only had one. His friends take him aside and hint that he's drinking too much and he airily tells them that he can stop any time he wants. When his wife finds bottles of whisky hidden around the house he insists he got them to give to a friend as a birthday present. After he looses his job for continually coming to work drunk he explains to his family that he really got the sack because the boss doesn't like him. The years go by and despite all the evidence to the contrary, against the most basic common sense and in spite what everyone can plainly see, the alcoholic always has an answer, no matter how unconvincing. Likewise, in the coming years Christian theologians will be able to think of a thousand reasons why God did not reveal himself to Mother Teresa or answer her prayers, except the simplest and most obvious one - that he doesn’t exist. Evangelical Christians who are forever insisting that 'only Jesus can give you peace' will likewise be struggling to explain why a devote, humble and self-sacrificing woman like Mother Teresa hardly had a moment's peace in spite of giving her whole life to Christ and yearning for his presence. The tragedy of Mother Teresa is that she was born at a time and into a faith that considers belief in God to be the basis of all spirituality. Like Dostoevsky and so many others, she was convinced that if there is no God life must be meaningless, ethical principles must be without foundation and the universe must be unexplainable.
According to her letters, Mother Teresa's faith in God started to wane soon after she moved to Calcutta to found the Home for the Destitute Dying in 1948. To a Buddhist this would hardly be surprising. Seeing beggars with maggots in their wounds and being eaten alive by rats, as Mother Teresa did, would have to shake any intelligent person's faith in a loving, caring deity. Throughout the following years Mother Teresa wrote of her doubts and feelings of abandonment by God to her various confessors and they urged her to be patient and to pray harder. Sometimes her confessors' advice and encouragement kept the darkness at bay for a while but it always came back.
Imagine if the Buddha had been her confessor. When she told him that she had doubts in the existence of God he would have smiled at her and said; 'It is good to be uncertain, it is good to doubt. Uncertainty arises towards something that is doubtful' (Kankhaniye va pana vo thane vicikiccha uppanna, A.I,189). Given her conditioning, this statement would have shocked her. She might have asked: 'But Lord, if there is no God there must be no immortal soul and therefore no salvation!' The Buddha would have replied; 'When someone thinks "Alas, I had it and now I have it no longer" they grieve, lament, beat their breast and feel sorrow. This is how there comes to be agitation about something that does not exist' (M.I,136). Then he would have explained to her the truth of anatta. He might have then told her about kamma so she could see that ethics can still be meaningful without having to believe in a divine being who keeps everyone in line with rewards and punishment. He would have taught her the Noble Eightfold Path so she could understand that life can have direction and purpose despite there being no Jesus. He would have also reassured her that doubt was not necessarily a sign of rebelliousness and sinfulness but sometimes of intelligence. And finally, he would have shown her how to meditate so that she could develop a deep inner stillness and peace that was due to seeing things as they are rather than being based on believing in things that are not. Had she been able to grasp all this, Mother Teresa would have still then been able to do all the good she did and have inner peace as well.
In the light of all these recent revelations it seems likely that Mother Teresa's hectic activity, her punishing routine and her demanding personality were all an attempt to escape from her agonizing doubt. The constant self-abasement that is to be found in nearly every one of her letters probably has the same origin. None of this detracts from Mother Teresa's uniqueness. Her dedication to the poor makes her a saint by any standards, at least a saint as the word is used in the non-religious sense. But it does cast yet more serious doubts on the existence of God. Mother Teresa could have done everything she did without believing in God and now we know that actually she did do it without believing in God - or at least while having persistent doubts about his existence. In fact, it was only her conviction that she should believe in God when she could not, that made her life so unhappy.


Justin Choo said...

This is going to be very difficult for the Children Of God to swallow, let alone digest.

It has always in my mind how Mother Theresa with such uncompromising compassion could believe in the All-Loving God.

May she now be at peace in some peaceful realm.

jhayati said...

Well said Venerable, they are of course,amongst our greatest fears, these mental formations about soul, God(s) sin, redemption etc.
Those who train themselves as The Lord Buddha suggested, are in fact, relieved at the disappearance of these fictions and then continue to live their lives less encumbered as it were. What a hold over our every movement these many other Religions have, their hypotheses almost exclusively nothing but social, worldy contracts to secure unbending
obedience, alas, for the worldy ends of the puppet masters no wiser than anyone else. What a great sadness(for her) that Mother Teresa's great works were seemingly, a self mortification or ongoing penance. Great works nonetheless! For her, it seems that existential emptiness(sunnyata) was not a liberation, but a gnawing spiritual short cicuit.

jessicatang said...

In a way, her doubt in God is indeed the way to enlightenment. Because there is no creator God. She realise it on her own. Good for her!

moonpointer said...

She being conferred sainthood as a title despite lacking faith affirms an important truth - that one needs not believe in God to live as a “godly” person, to practise great compassion and wisdom. “Godliness” in terms of living with great virtue does not require God or faith in him.

“If you judge people,
you have no time to love them.” - Mother Teresa

May Mother Teresa and all other Mother Sentient Beings be well and happy.

Masta Mind said...

I think that the core of this problem is Christianity’s very-dualist dogma: good (God’s will)-evil (devil’s deeds); joy-sorrow; God-God’s creations (including I); reality-ideal; hell-heaven; what’s allowed – what’s forbidden. They have been pushing the Christians (and their predecessors) to waste abundant energy to draw a chalk-line or dig a trench between two which are actually one (or none). It is coercion against the nature of things and therefore the dualism creates contradiction, and stress. Probably Mother Teresa stressed further because she (who was a lot less fortunate than Siddharta), with all the stress and doubts, failed to ask the right question, or to see the right direction.

It is a pity however, to see such noble person suffering such great depression. I heard that she suffered even greater when she’s dying. She was delirious and was given exorcism (instead of psycho-therapy).

Terrance said...

Hi Masta Mind,

Thank you for your comment.

I am shock to hear of this. But sadly it was true:,8599,173791,00.html

With metta,

Vegy-Gal said...

I like a lot of the author's thoughts brought out in this article. However I testify there is a divine creator. I have felt his love and received his power. I am now happy when I used to be miserable.

I think Mother Teresa was suffering from the buffeting of the adversary and/or a mental health problem. She may have contracted evil spirits, because of some vulnerability, who blocked her from feeling God's presence.

The reality of God is demonstrated in her 1) 5 week reprieve from the dark tunnel in 1959 and 2) Her ability to endure to the end despite the horror she lived in.

I hope that Mother Teresa's story encourages people to seek help (NOT serotonin re-uptake inhibitors) for depression instead of accepting it as something God wants us to keep.