The other day I put metta into a Google Image search hoping to find a picture
illustrating the concept or perhaps a beautiful picture with some words from
the Metta Sutta on it. All the pictures that came up
were of a black American basketball player. Intrigued and a little confused I
did a bit more searching and discovered that this high-profile sportsman
recently changed his name to Metta World Peace, Metta being his first name and
World Peace being his surname. The Wikipedia entry on MWP quotes him as saying:
“Changing my name was meant to inspire and bring youth together all around the
world” and his publicist explained that he chose Metta as his first name because
it is a traditional Buddhist word that means loving kindness and friendliness
towards all”. It is a laudable sentiment and it’s nice to know that something
of Buddhism is getting wider coverage with the general public. The letdown was not long in coming.
It seems that MWP was arrested for domestic violence four years into his marriage and his wife filed for divorce two years later. He has been involved in violence on an off the court several times as well and in a recent interview he stated that he regretted changing his name.
High profile sports stars
behaving badly is nothing new but this sportsman’s name change thing raises an interesting point,
to me at least. The word love, whether
used in a romantic or a religious sense, is thrown around often and very
liberally. The quality itself is quickly and ardently professed, everyone gets
all warm and when they use it or hear it being used, it is lauded and put
forward as the solution to many, sometimes to all, human problems. But let’s
face it, love of any type, especially metta,
is a rather rare quality. Getting all tearful
and chocked up while saying “May all beings be well and happy” is one thing. Genuinely
trying to be forgiving, patient, kindly and generous, especially when it is
hardest to do so, is another. This is
not to say that we can’t have metta but
just that it takes more than talking about it or giving yourself that name.